Thank you for being awesome. Not because you bring me flowers and give me perfect presents like in-city getaway escapes here. You do those things too, and they are justright and oh-so-thoughtful and romantic. But that's not why I love you right now. Right now, I love you because you are organized. Right now, I love you because you make me a more functional human being with your filing systems and deadlines and task list. Right now, I love you because you're the exact opposite of my stressed out, papers-flying-everywhere mess. You compliment me, and you give me something to aim for, a goal for how I want to live, a pathway for how not to disappoint myself again with my ongoing shortcomings. We all have shortcomings, but I feel incredibly lucky that you help balance mine, especially when I'm feeling so unbalanced.
In return for your complete awesomeness, I promise to help with your balance by washing the dishes, finding healthy meals to cook, being obsessive about our budget tracking, and scheduling time for us.
I like this partnership thing a lot. It's why I'm marrying you, even when the actual wedding part of the marrying makes me go completely haywire. So thanks for helping keep the haywire part at a somewhat minimum.