Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Note to Self

I try really hard to be sane and balanced about this wedding stuff. And I try to keep it in perspective and reach for the zen. But sometimes, trying isn't enough, and I need emails like this from my partner.
F*ck 'em.  I know it seems really hard to actually hold true to that idea, but at the end of the day, it's OUR wedding, and people who are gonna judge will go ahead and judge, no matter what we do to appease them.  So f*ck em.  Let them sit all high & mighty in their tower, because we'll be down in the beautiful green grass running around smashing pinatas and eating tacos and getting married and being the happiest people in the world and not giving a shit what they think.  That kinda sounds like fun, doesn't it? 

:-)

Why yes, that does sound kinda fun, if by fun you mean the absolutebestfreakingwedding EVER. Mostly because it will be ours. Yay.

17 comments:

  1. Awww....I LOVE that! He's absolutely right...it's about you guys and smashing pinatas and that's my fave wedding phrase...f 'em!

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  2. He's so right! And the best part is it really does sound like a blast!

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  3. That really does sound like the best wedding ever! So happy to hear that you're both focusing on the wedding YOU want, because that's truly what it's all about!

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  4. Seriously, wedding motto: "Fuck 'em!"

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  5. If you've got a partner in f*ck 'em, you've got a partner for life.

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  6. Thats the best effing pick-me-up ever! Your pick-me-up helped pick ME up! Yay, indeed!

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  7. somehow being married unlocks these gates. people suddenly think they have a right to express their expectations for your life. the wedding is just the beginning.

    but from there on out, you have someone to stick by you and say, "eff em all. let's do what we want."

    sounds like you're starting on the right foot.

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  8. Jason kicks so much ass (and couldn't be more right!)

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  9. We had the exact same convo, in which I ended up crying saying we should just have the wedding in Phoenix and Mr. AZ said "F*@k that noise- we are getting married in Sedona because it is beautiful and you love it, and it's perfect". Our grooms are the freakin' bomb.

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  10. Sounds like low-cost and high joy if you ask me! Your partner is totally right, plus it's kinda fun to be a rebel and do it your way. So smash pinatas and have as many tacos as your hearts desire!!!

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  11. YES! That is what it is all about.

    You and Jason WILL have the absolutebestfreakingweddingever.

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  12. YES! Sounds like an authentic real blast to me!

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  13. really you and the guy are all that matters because after this insanity its just you too and people are going to have fun and guests that are cranky will always be cranky

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  14. Your fiance is awesome. :)

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  15. He is absolutely right. What a great guy - he's a keeper!

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